Monday, January 7, 2013

Christmas Traditions (with lots of pictures!)

Christmas break was just about as perfect as you could plan it this year.  My whole family was able to spend several days together at the cabin.  We have had to celebrate Christmas on alternate days the last couple of years because of work, church or in-law schedules.  But not this time!  We were all together from Christmas Eve through Marc's birthday.  It was wonderful...but I'll let the pictures tell the stories.
 
First, the traditional candy train.
 
 
There were actually two versions this year.  Love the concentration on Valerie and Riley's faces.
 
 
Chuck and Missy brought syrup for authentic snow cones.  The prototypes were eaten directly off the ground, but eventually we did find cups and spoons to go around.
 
 
The snowmobile ran smoothly all week - but all of our snow clothes reeked of fumes when we unpacked at home.
 
 
I realize that pulling sleds uphill is not the safest way to play, but it sure kept the kids (and Marc!) happy for a lot longer.
 
 
The snow would not pack for a snow man, but Marc was able to carve out a fun little cave and slide.
 
 
(The snow fell out of Valerie's mitten just as I snapped this shot ... it cracks me up.)
 
 
Susie and her kids on the downhill and the mini-snowman that Ally built.
 
 
Christmas morning ... the candy and chap stick are beginning to melt over the fireplace.
 
 
Let's get this show on the road!
 
 
Grandpa loved all the extra lovin' this week.
 
 
Mom received a special family portrait commissioned by Chuck and painted by Sierra.  It is already proudly displayed at the cabin.
 
 
Valerie had a very Jag-bar (jaguar) Christmas.  She's a little obsessed at the moment.
 
 
Marc's birthday is the day after Christmas.  He was so (not) pleased to be sung to at least 20 times.  My family knows how to make a guy feel loved.
 
 
We provided  ice-cold bottled Coke and a tasty Brazilian meal in his honor.
 
 
 
The rest of the week was spent playing games, watching movies, doing puzzles...
 
 
building forts...
 
 
hanging out in front of the fire place...
 
 
taking creepy sibling pictures...
 
 
and playing games.  (Did I mention that already?)
 
 
Of course, there was pizza making with Grandma.  Now all the girls have matching aprons for this tradition.
 
 
By the end of the week, some cabin fever had definitely set in.
 
 
 
We are so thankful for these wonderful memories together!

Friday, December 21, 2012

Celebrating Christmas

We have a Christmas tree.  We decorate cookies.  We hang stockings.  We exchange gifts.  We read books about Santa and Rudolph and Frosty.  We put lights around the house.  We pray for extra snow at the cabin.  All of that is LOTS of fun!  But it's not the point.  I think that more than ever this year, I am struck by the real meaning of Christmas.  Maybe it is because of the horror of the Sandy Hook shootings last week and the deep sorrow that still lingers.  Sin hurts.  But it started before that too.  Earlier this year, we had a guest speaker at church who preached about some of our misconceptions related to the birth of Jesus.  I think that was back in March or April.  Ever since then, I have been mulling over what he said.  The Christmas story is beautiful...but it is full of shame, hardship and sorrow.  The darkness of those events, makes the love of God shine all the brighter.  How our sin-sick world needs to know this Love!  I have worked on this poem off and on all year.  It's still not quite right...but almost.

Christmas Poem
All my life I’ve heard it tell
How the Holy Child was born.
My mind is filled with pictures
Of that early Christmas morn.
But as I read the Scriptures
And weigh the evidence,
I realize I’ve misconstrued
Some critical events.
 
Our carols speak of busy inns,
Of bells and silent nights,
Of drummer boys and angel choirs
Of sheep and stars and lights.
We’ve glamorized that little scene
And carved it out of wood.
But I can’t help but wonder -
Have we really understood?
 
Mary was a maiden
From the land of Galilee.
She was nervously preparing
For her wedding jubilee.
She was betrothed to Joseph,
An artisan by trade.
The contract had been settled
And arrangements had been made.
 
Nazareth was a little village
Nestled in the hills.
The people there worked long and hard
Without a lot of frills.
In the months before the wedding
There was much the two must do.
There were many stipulations
If, by birth, you were a Jew.
 
Joseph would have added
A room to papa’s house.
The date was set to occupy
When they had made their vows.
His family was working hard
In eager expectation
Of soon adding some numbers
To their home, their clan, their nation.
 
Meanwhile, Mary was preparing
Herself as Joseph’s bride.
He would soon come to fetch her.
His heart would fill with pride.
She wanted to be beautiful
For that festive wedding day.
With oils and sweet perfumes
She prepared in every way.
 
When one day, in the interval
Between vows and consummation,
Gabriel came to Mary
With astonishing revelation.
The angel brought her news
Of her role in God’s great plan:
She would carry in her womb
The Hope of every man.
 
With humility and reverence
She accepted this high calling.
Though, certainly, the news of this
To some would be appalling.
For centuries the Jews had waited
To hear a word from God.
But a virgin who was pregnant?!
How scandalous!  How odd!
 
How the rumors must have flown
Around that little town.
“Did you hear…?”  “Can you believe…?”
Echoed up the streets and down.
Mary would be outcast
By all whom she held dear.
Heads would turn, eyes would dart
Whenever she came near.
 
Joseph tried with all his might
To protect her reputation.
He devised a plan to remedy
This shameful situation.
He would divorce her quietly.
He would not cast a stone.
She could live – but always be
Outcast, unloved, alone.
 
But then one night, as Joseph slept,
He also heard a voice
Telling him that Mary was
God’s very special choice.
She would be the mother
Of God’s son in human skin.
This child would ransom mankind
From the dreadful curse of sin.
 
So there was no festive banquet -
No jubilant parade.
Joseph fetched his humble bride.
God’s calling they obeyed.
They tried to live among their kin
But were looked upon with scorn.
So they made their way to Bethlehem
Before the child was born.
 
There was indeed a census
And registration was required.
But they didn’t come skidding into town
Bedraggled, sore and tired.
The pain that Mary surely felt
Was not the pain of labor,
But the weight of her position
As the maiden of God’s favor.
 
The couple looked for lodging
Among relatives in town,
But due to their “condition”
Were repeatedly turned down.
There was no room for youngsters
Who had soiled their reputation.
The due date loomed.  It was indeed
A desperate situation.
 
Finally, a home was made
In a cave pen full of sheep.
Filth was scooped, fresh water drawn
And the straw piled in a heap.
Mary made the best of things
As the days passed slowly by.
She probably kept to herself
Away from curious eyes.
 
And then, the glorious night
Of our Messiah’s birth!
The Son of God in Heaven
Became the Son of Man on Earth.
The Father broke his silence
In a most amazing way:
He sent a little baby
To be born on dirt and hay!
 
The heavens could not keep still!
They burst forth with song and mirth.
A new star and hosts of angels appeared
To announce the Savior’s birth.
Yet to whom did they appear?
Where was the news released?
To lowly shepherds on a hill.
To astrologers in the East.
 
The shepherds left their flocks that night
To see this little child.
Their Savior born in Bethlehem?!
Curiosities ran wild.
A star led them to the place
Where their Good Shepherd lay.
They knelt and worshiped Him
On the musty smelling hay.
 
The brightness of the star
That appeared in charted skies,
Was immediately noticed
By men with keen, sharp eyes.
It was such a great discovery
That they quickly packed their things
And traveled long and far
To see this grand, new king.
 
Months later, when they arrived,
Things were not as they expected.
There was no regal throne room
As they likely had projected.
Instead, there was a humble home
Where they found a little boy.
They knelt and worshipped him
And gave their gifts with joy.
 
But wicked old King Herod -
He could not let this rest.
A rival to his position
Let him feeling much distress.
In his jealousy and rage
He devised an evil plan:
To murder male babies
In that region of the land.
 
So Joseph took his family
In the middle of the night.
They escaped to Egypt
And lived quite out of sight.
The Creator of the Universe -
Yes!  God’s very Son!
Was born into obscurity
And now was on the run.
 
Everything was happening
Just as the prophets said,
But few people took notice
Because their hearts were dead.
They were busy in the marketplace,
In the fields and at the gates.
Putting clothes upon their backs,
Finding food to fill their plates.
 
They were looking for a Savior
Who would free them from oppression,
Not a humble Servant
Who would pay for their transgression.
They wanted a kingdom
Full of power, wealth and glory!
But clearly that is not how God
Had chosen to write this story.
 
 
And what of me? What do I see
When I read God’s Holy Word?
Do I hear a deep, love story?
Or do the facts seem too absurd?
As I think about these scenes
I pray I won’t forget
The condescending love God showed
To pay my awful debt.
 
From now on at Christmas
I will see the other side -
The part our cards and carols
Unintentionally hide.
I will thank God for the bitter pain
That was part of His great plan
To show the riches of His love
For each and every man.
 
 
Merry Christmas!

Saturday, December 8, 2012

A Very Merry Weekend

Marc didn't have to babysit any kids in detention on Friday afternoon so he got home early and suggested that we head out to get our Christmas tree and grab some dinner before our AWANA staff Christmas party that evening.  The girls had their shoes and coats on in record time!  (Funny how that works.)  We were able to agree on a tree rather quickly, got it home and in the stand....and still made it to the party on time!
 
 
After the party, we stayed up late to decorate.  The girls kissed the lights as they untangled them and passed them to Marc.  (Drama queens.)
 
 
 
Ally had fun dancing to Christmas music while wearing the tree skirt.
 
 
Marc put on the lights and I  wrapped the ribbon around the tree, but the girls put up all the balls and ornaments.  They did pretty well, I must admit.  I love the fact that they are now old enough to help with the clean up too.
 
 
After all the decorations were up it was time for a slumber party!  We watched a couple of Christmas cartoons before finally dropping off to sleep.
 
 
To top off a pretty awesome night...we woke up to the first snowfall on Saturday morning.
 
 
 
Pancakes and hot chocolate were on the breakfast menu.
 
 
The girls have an obnoxious little pink tree in their bedroom which they LOVE.  It has been up for about a week already, but this is still the look on Valerie's face whenever the overhead lights are turned off.  So precious.
 

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

41 Days Later....


 
Yup!  Been away from this here blog for 41 days.  OOPS.  We got sick...we got behind in school...life got extra busy, etc.  Here's a picture recap of the last month and a half:

Sick days at our house look like this.  (Don't worry - Marc is still breathing.)  We all had some form of fevers, aches, coughs, and general ickiness.
  
Just healthy enough to carve pumpkins on the night before Halloween.  We didn't get dressed up to go trick-or-treating this year, but the girls enjoyed handing out candy. 
  



The girls played in their very first recital at church at the beginning of November.  We were so proud of them!  (Wish we had video to insert here.)  They were nervous, but did just fine.  We are so thankful for the lessons that they get to take from the BEST piano teacher ever - Grandma Phyllis!


We had our homeschool Thanksgiving celebration before heading into a week long break from school.  There were oral presentations, trivia games, crafts, Thanksgiving Bingo and a finger food feast....oh! and about 20 kids present.  We love this group of people!



Then it was time for a trip to the cabin with Grandpa, Grandma and the Becks. 
Grandma's Pizza Kitchen

Caught in the middle of an elaborate make-believe story.

Ally has suddenly become quite the reader!  She is half way through her 2nd grade reader from the late 1950's.  Why not?!


The weather was rainy, but not too cold.  The girls and I loved the "walk in the clouds" that we took up the forest service road.  Valerie loved the motorcycle ride that Grandpa gave her! 


 Pretzel antlers for Grandpa Elk.


 Thanksgiving Day itself was spent back in Meridian so that we could be with Great Grandpa and Grandma Obenchain.


Valerie "helped" me look through the ads for my Black Friday adventure with Julie.  She cut out dozens of pictures of things that she wants to buy for her baby...when she gets married.  (Oi vey!)  And the best part of Black Friday?!  Standing in line next to Julie when she opened the $100 gift card from Fred Meyer.  So worth the hour long wait in 30-something degree weather!

Then it was party time for this three year old clown, Riley-boy.

 He lives for getting a laugh out of people.


After three female cousins and one sister, it was so fun to shop for things like chainsaws, man tools, golf clubs, tumbling mats, and dump trucks.


And that about sums up the last 41 days.  I promise not to be gone for quite so long this next time.

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Two Ballerinas and a Book Worm

 
Sierra loves books.
Ally loves ballet.
Valerie just loves whatever her sisters love!
(Since she can't read yet, she chose ballet this time.)
 
 
 
 
Who needs a real dance studio when you have an instructional DVD from the library, hand-me-down ballet gear and a pole secured between two dining room chairs?!?!  These two were so pleased with this set-up and I earned major mommy points.
 
 
Sierra is going to finish this 503 page book in under a week.  (She loves the Tumtum and Nutmeg series - in case anyone is looking for reading suggestions for the 8 year old range.)
 
 
Have I mentioned that I love these girls?!?